Every day teaches us something new, but some days leave a lasting impact. A while ago, a house move got me reflecting on the true meaning of 'possessions.
If you have ever moved houses, you know its complexity. The process is overwhelming, with so many things to organize, sort through, and most importantly, let go of. As I kept packing my kids' items and mine, I made sure to tell the packers and movers to handle my Veena with extra care, as it is something I have treasured for years. My eldest daughter, not missing a beat, gathered all her Harry Potter books and safely tucked them into her backpack, carrying them herself to the new house. Meanwhile, my younger one insisted on bringing her Barbie dolls along, carrying them with her all the way. It hit me then—each of us attaches unique value to certain possessions and goes to great lengths to protect them. We often believe these items are what make our lives meaningful.
As I dug through all my belongings, I realized how many items I had bought simply because they were cute, only to never use them, leaving them to take up unnecessary space in the closet. This included toys, clothes, accessories, crockery, kitchen appliances, and more. Letting go of these things was painful, even though I knew I shouldn't have bought most of them in the first place.
This process sparked a change in my perspective on 'possessions'. I began exploring minimalism, and the concept resonated deeply with me. And that is how I became a minimalist! :) Now, after several months of embracing minimalism, I feel much lighter from within. Less stuff! Less suffocation! Less guilt! More life!
So whenever I make a purchase, whether online or in a store, I ask myself three key questions:
Do I need this, or do I just want it?
Will this add value to my life, or will it just take up space?
Will I use this in the next 6 months?
Answering these questions helps me make mindful purchases making life simpler. Minimalism not only saves my pocket but also brings more happiness, less maintenance, and time to focus on what truly matters.
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